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Title: Alternative to spanking your children....
Post by: securpro on February 20, 2008, 06:52:09 PM
Spanking children

Most of America's populace think it improper to spank children.
The other day I was talking to one of my younger buddies about
methods used to discipline children.


We talked about "t ime outs", grounding, holding back "rewards" until
the child displayed desired behavior etc. One of the things we discussed
was the act of spanking and my friend explained that no, he does not
spank any of his children.


He explained that what he does is to take the misbehaving child out for
a ride in the car and talk. He said that usually this works and that the
child calms down fairly quickly and really doesn't take too much time.


By removing the child, in this case his son, from the immediate situation
and providing a change of scenery, the child is allowed to focus on
something different. Once the child has the opportunity to change
perspective, things get better quickly and the child has better
understanding of his place within the family and begins to understand
the families concept of acceptable behavior.


He kindly shared a picture of the process which I share with you now.










(http://i217.photobucket.com/albums/cc195/securpro/spanking.jpg)
Title: Re: Alternative to spanking your children....
Post by: FinsnFur on February 20, 2008, 08:06:35 PM
I was going to say, after reading the title, "I'll stick to spanking"...but I kinda like this idea  :biggrin:
Title: Re: Alternative to spanking your children....
Post by: Coulter on February 20, 2008, 08:13:57 PM
I love it....holy crap 99 in a 35 :shck: That kid better hang on to those wipers a bit tighter.

Steve
Title: Re: Alternative to spanking your children....
Post by: HaMeR on February 20, 2008, 09:18:42 PM
 :roflmao: :roflmao:
Title: Re: Alternative to spanking your children....
Post by: Bopeye on February 20, 2008, 09:44:25 PM
I'm so glad I finished reading before I replied........ :eyebrownod:

I was about to make a real arse outta myself.  :readthis: :innocentwhistle:

Cool picture though.......... :roflmao:
Title: Re: Alternative to spanking your children....
Post by: cathryn on February 22, 2008, 04:56:42 PM
i got hard headed hillbilly kids, nothin BUt a spankin works on them..LOL  :laf:

or maybe takin my sons shotgun or bow away but i dont do that, thats just cruel.    :biggrin:
Title: Re: Alternative to spanking your children....
Post by: HaMeR on February 22, 2008, 05:49:08 PM
Sometimes yer the windshield!!

Sometimes yer the kid!!

:roflmao: :roflmao:


What's the last thing to go thru a kids head when it hits the windshield??  :biggrin:  :roflmao: :roflmao:

If I had a nickel for every ass whoopin I ever got growing up I would be living the really good life.  :wink:
Title: Re: Alternative to spanking your children....
Post by: cathryn on February 22, 2008, 05:52:33 PM
their arse?  :roflmao:

i got so many switchins when i was young that the Forsythia and weeping willows didnt have any linbs on em by the end of summer.  :biggrin: But i was really a good kid, IMO.  :wink:


Title: Re: Alternative to spanking your children....
Post by: HaMeR on February 22, 2008, 05:55:20 PM
 :roflmao: :roflmao:
Title: Re: Alternative to spanking your children....
Post by: cathryn on February 22, 2008, 06:01:49 PM
well, i was..LOL  :biggrin:
Title: Re: Alternative to spanking your children....
Post by: HaMeR on February 22, 2008, 06:59:43 PM
I'm not doubting you at all!!  :laf: :laf: